Wednesday 8 January 2020

POOR BOYS FAILED BY SOCIETY


The disadvantage that poor young
boys experience in schools is merely a
reflection of how society treats them
more generally. It has to be said that
a key reason underlying this situation
has been the growth of feminism.

Feminism increasingly defines the 
identities of young, mainly working
-class men. Middle-class followers
of the feminist movement have
successfully skewed society to 
reflect their own, continuing, anti-male 
agenda. Divorce law, including financial
settlements, child custody and one-sided
anonymity in cases of alleged sexual 
impropriety are examples 

Endemic since the 1980s, it is a process
that has been given added impetus by
accelerating economic and social
change. It has happened at a time
when Britain has been transformed
into a service-focused economy.

The result has been the greater 
empowerment of women in the 
workplace over the past fifty years.
They have benefited from improved 
educational opportunities and the
ability to control their fertility. It has 
meant growing financial independence 
from men, not only for those in work, 
but also for young, single mothers who 
have been prioritised for housing and 
receive attractive state benefits.

Along with this has been the changing 
perception of what is meant by a 
nuclear family. It is a complex and 
fluid picture. Marriage continues 
to decline with 42% of marriages 
ending in divorce. 

Serial monogamy and cohabitation 
between single-sex couples are 
common. Gone is much of the 
stability and certainty of family life 
in the 1950s.

In its place are more fragmented 
environments, often devoid of the
influence of paternal role models, 
which are so important in the 
development of the male identity.

Feminist opinion-formers in 
politics, education, the law and 
especially in the media are not 
seeking a comapact between the 
sexes, but female preferment, in 
the form of positive discrimination. 

The impact of the corrosive influence 
that the feminist lobby has had on 
female attitudes to men has been 
profound.

In education, where only 12% of 
primary school teachers are male, 
the predominantly female culture 
cannot, nor in many cases would 
it seek to, encourage the 
development of the male identity 
as such. 

Female characteristics are seen as 
good, male as bad. Many male 
graduates are put off teaching 
by the threat of being falsely 
accused of improper behaviour, 
the consequences of which are 
often devastating. 

Gender bias continues into 
secondary education. Some ten 
years' ago, Jenny Murray, presenter 
of the BBC Woman's Hour, asked 
a guest why boys outperformed girls 
in GCSEs. She was told that boys 
responded better to the pressure of 
an examination, whereas girls 
preferred coursework.

Murray's reply was that if that was 
the system, then change it. It was,
leading to less rigour, which 
undermined the credibility of the
examination in schools and further
up the learning chain in higher
education. 

This background provides many of
the root causes for many of the 
chronic social problems that 
disadvantage young men. They 
leave school with inferior or no
qualifications, poorer job prospects
and face unemployment. 

Dismissed as potential husbands, 
fathers and providers by young 
women who are supported by the 
state, they feel unwanted and 
express growing anger. 

Greater tolerance in society for 
generalised 'men are useless' 
statements, jokes, advertisements 
and so on, than would be used to 
refer to any other group, reflects a 
situation for which there is an 
increasing human and economic 
cost. 













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